The narcissist goes into a schizoid mode (narcissistic or schizoid withdrawal): he isolates himself, a hermit in the kingdom of his hurt. He minimises his social interactions and uses "messengers" to communicate with the outside. Devoid of energy, the narcissist can no longer pretend to succumb to social conventions. His former compliance gives way to open withdrawal (a rebellion of sorts). Smiles are transformed to frowns, courtesy becomes rudeness, emphasised etiquette used as a weapon, an outlet of aggression, an act of violence.
The narcissist, blinded by pain, seeks to restore his balance, to take another sip of the narcissistic nectar. In this quest, the narcissist turns both to and upon those nearest to him. His real attitude emerges: for him, his nearest and dearest are nothing are but tools, one-dimensional instruments of gratification, Sources of Supply or pimps of such supply, catering to his narcissistic lusts.
Having failed to procure for him his "drug' (Narcissistic Supply), the narcissist regards friends, colleagues, and even family members as dysfunctional, frustrating objects. In his wrath, he tries to mend them by forcing them to perform again, to function...."
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There's a reason WHY people refuse to discuss this with YOU, because you REJECT all the answers you do NOT agree with. Your mind rusted CLOSED YEARS ago because you REFUSE to USE your brain. ALL you want to is pick fight AND ARGUE. SO YOUR EGO GETS FED.
And NO, we CANNOT prove it. is there a brain in your skull. How empty is it? PROVE THAT TO US, or shove it where the sun NEVER shines.
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